One of the most helpful things missionaries can do as they prepare to
serve overseas is to go through cross-cultural training. Different mission
agencies might go about this differently, but there is agreement that before a
missionary sets out to leave lives in a different culture, there needs to be
proper preparation. Thus, Cross-cultural training helps introduce the
missionary candidate to the challenges they will or might face as they leave live
in a culture different from their own.
While this is a good thing to pursue and to continue doing this
training, most, if not all, missionaries who have gone through these programs
will testify to the challenges faced in their respective ministry settings. Not
sooner than later after they arrive, they face cultural challenges that easily
become stress producers. The honeymoon period of being in a new ministry
context evaporates quickly as one daily realizes their limitations and lack of
proper knowledge about the culture of the target people. The result is cultural
fatigue that leads to different varied responses from different missionaries.
How can one explain this in light of the cross-cultural training that
these missionaries receive before hand? There is no denying that the training
they received was valuable and helpful. One cannot imagine the intensity of the
challenges they would face if such training had never been given. At the same
time, this reality raises another question: Is there a missing element in the
cross-cultural training that our missionaries receive before they leave? My
intention here is to highlight one of these elements and make a proposal for an
adjustment in our preparation of missionary candidates.
I am one who would have thought that I could survive in any culture
given that my background is multi-cultural. Yet, as I have traveled and served
in different settings, it has become clear to me how limited I am in my own
cultural adaptability. Each ministry setting is different, with its own
specific cultural expectations and practices. These practices are not known to
the western mind and therefore cannot be part of the cross-cultural preparation
for our missionaries. Sometimes I get the feeling that people think that all
the African tribes have the same cultural practices. That is far from being
true. Within each African country, there are many tribes and many more dialects
and customs. Thus, even within one country, there is not a general rule on the
culture of that country. As one moves from tribe to tribe, he or she faces
continued cultural changes and expectations. The question, then, is how can an
American mission agency adequately prepare missionaries for these variegated
missionary contexts? As it stands now, the motivation for cross-cultural
training is good and helpful. Yet, I fear it might be too broad to be helpful.
Thus, my proposal.
In addition to the current cross-cultural training, there needs to be
a focus on a culture-specific training for our missionaries. When missionary
candidates get together for their cross-cultural training, each is heading to a
different part of the world. While helping them realize the challenges of
living cross-culturally, it is equally important to help each person understand
the demands or challenges of the specific culture to which they are going. A
missionary heading to Africa will need to understand the cultural expectations
and practices of their ministry context. For example, what are the religious
practices of your people group? How do they bury their dead, give into
marriage, view child birth etc.? What are their inheritance laws? What is their
view of the family? How do they see the role of each individual in the
community? What are proper behaviors in public? What is expected of you when
someone travels for a day to visit you? Knowing these things in detail will
enable the missionary to be better informed and also to have a realistic
picture of whether or not they are fit for such a ministry context. Sometimes
the desire to serve blinds us from seeing the challenges/hindrances to that
service.
An advantage for this proposal is that it helps the missionary to
arrive at his location better prepared. A stranger in the village who shows
knowledge of the worldview of the villagers and appreciation of their
day-to-day cultural practices will win the hearts of their audience before even
saying a word. On the contrary, a stranger who exhibits shock at the cultural
practices and expectations remains a stranger, and though accepted, will find
it hard to make a breakthrough. Rather than us Americans deciding what our
missionaries need to know before they go, let us ask what the people in their
various ministry contexts would like them to know before they come.
If we desire to make a difference in our respective ministries
contexts, let us strive indeed to be all things to all people in order that we
might win some through the gospel (1 Cor. 9:19-23).